Belonging Across Your Multiple Selves

In this episode, Doreen Cumberford and Megan Norton-Newbanks sit down with Sa-Eun Park, also known as San Shine, a belonging coach and spiritual entrepreneur based in Incheon, Korea. San shares her powerful story of growing up cross-culturally—moving from Korea to Saudi Arabia, then Austria, and later, the U.S.—and how these experiences shaped her journey with belonging, identity, and self-acceptance.

Key Topics & Takeaways

• The Wound of Uprootedness:
  San discusses the impact of being separated from her family at a young age and growing up across multiple cultures, and how this led to a lifelong search for belonging.
• Inner Boardroom Method:
  San introduces her unique approach to self-acceptance by creating an "inner boardroom," inviting listeners to listen compassionately to the many voices within themselves shaped by cross-cultural experiences.
• Belonging as a Superpower:
  The conversation explores the idea that the ability to hold multiple cultural identities is not just a challenge, but a superpower for empathy and connection.
• Authenticity and Wholeness:
  How embracing all parts of ourselves, even the conflicted or fragmented ones, leads to a fuller sense of authenticity and belonging.
• The Human Kintsugi:
  San is developing a new framework—“The Human Kintsugi”—inspired by the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold. It’s about turning life’s fractures into sources of beauty and strength.
• Senses and Belonging:
  The importance of using our senses, especially intuition, to recognize belonging and polarization in spaces we inhabit.
• Community in a Changing World:
  A discussion on how the meaning of community is shifting with technology, and why self-belonging is foundational for creating connections with others.

Memorable Quotes

• “Those voices are there to guide you to the wholeness in you.” – San Shine
• “Belonging is about returning to yourself and remembering who you already are.”

Practical Tips

• Practice the Inner Boardroom:
  Sit with your different identities and listen to each one with compassion, as you would to children with different needs.
• Create Your Own Healing Rituals:
  Physical objects—like a heart with country flags—can help visually acknowledge and integrate all the cultures and experiences in your life.
• Explore Playlists:
  Curate music that resonates with your sense of belonging, or helps you connect with different versions of yourself.

Connect with Today’s Guest:

Founder and CEO of Octopus and Stitch Consulting

• IG - @octopusandstitch
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/sanshine/

Resources Mentioned

• The concept of “Human Kintsugi”
• Megan Norton-Newbanks’ book: Belonging Across Borders
• Repatriation Playlist (referenced in the episode; available in show notes)

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