Belonging to a Place

In this episode of Nomadic Diaries, hosts Doreen Cumberford and Megan Norton-Newbanks are joined by Camie Fenton, a long-time resident of San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. Camie shares her extraordinary journey of belonging, community, and creativity after making San Miguel her home for the past 25 years.

Key Discussion Highlights:

• Camie’s San Miguel Story:
  Camie reflects on her ties to the city, first forged through her uncle’s post-war art studies and deepened through familial connections and her own pursuit of art. She describes the enchanting street culture, architecture, and spontaneous warmth that drew her permanently to San Miguel.
• Changing Community:
  Camie talks about the rise of the Mexican middle class, infrastructural growth, and increased sophistication, but notes that the authentic soul of the city endures, especially in its markets, traditions, and welcoming spirit.
• Building Connections:
  Doreen shares how Camie’s openness and hospitality influenced her own decision to settle in San Miguel, sparking a conversation about the city’s strong sense of inclusion and non-transactional, spontaneous kindness.
• Cross-Cultural Blending:
  The episode delves into the integration between long-standing Mexican families and North American expats, with Camie describing a collaborative environment, especially in local NGOs and charities. Language may present some barriers, but shared experiences and compassion prevail.
• Advice for New Expats:
  Camie encourages newcomers to “smile, compliment people’s babies, and practice kindness.” She emphasizes the power of humility, humor, and a willingness to connect as keys to moving beyond observer status and becoming part of the fabric of San Miguel.
• Personal Growth:
  Camie shares how living in San Miguel has allowed her to reinvent herself, pursue latent interests, and contribute to community storytelling—all in a way that transcends societal expectations and allows her to experience true belonging.

Memorable Quotes

• “Belonging comes from our connectivity to what we do… crossing the street to the bodega, joining charities, saying hello.”
• “There’s a lack of the transactional aspect - you’re just invited to be part of something for no other reason than connection.”
• “If you can’t laugh at yourself, you probably shouldn’t come… it really takes some humility to ask for help.”

Resources Mentioned

• Atención Newspaper – An English-language publication for San Miguel’s expat community
• San Miguel Walking and Shopping Guide – Cami’s guide for exploring the city’s best neighborhoods and spots
• Local NGOs & Charities – Such as Save the Rio Laja, Feed the Hungry, Pro Niños, Amigos de Animales